When trying to communicate with honesty, avoid the phrase "to be honest with you" as it implies there are other times when one is not honest. I recommend using "in all transparency" or "to be transparent with you" instead, as these phrases suggest a willingness to share more information when necessary. Live with honesty and integrity rather than constantly asserting one's honesty, and be transparent when explaining critical or harsh situations.
If we have to point out the moments we are being honest in conversation, what does that say about the times we don't point it out? Does it mean we are always bending the truth unless we use the word honesty?
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